Saturday, 8 August 2015

How To Satisfy Your Woman Séxually [Must Read]

.Séxual satisfaction is relative. What
one woman likes might not be what
another woman wants. Although there are a few
basic things you should know about a woman’s
desire and how to keep her happy.
1. Listen to her: And not just her words, but
her body too. Communication is key when it
comes to having a pleasurable séxual experience.
Don’t be shy to actually talk about what you like
and ask her what she enjoys. Also, a woman has a
way of letting her man know what she likes by the
way she moves, the sounds she make and her
overall demeanor. Don’t be so focused in your
own pleasure that you don’t take the time to
focus on her.
2. She needs to be distracted – and in a good
way: During séx, men focus on the oncoming
climax Women’s minds wander, often into
fantasy. To reach orgásm, she needs to clear her
head and turn off her brain’s fear center. “Fantasy
is a way for her to disconnect her mind, and
it becomes an important part of deactivating her
fear center. Encourage her release by
constructing an érotic fantasy before things heat
up. Then, Quilliam says, you can whisper
provocative sentences to each other in turn,
building a story she can get lost in.
3. Let her take control: Men naturally want to
take charge, but often times, you might not know
what she likes until you give her the chance to
take control. Let her control the pace and
intensity, so that you can get a feel of what is best
for her. Encourage her to be on top: It allows her
to take advantageof a full range of positions-
facing you, facing away, even sitting cross-legged
on you.
4. Spot the érotic spots: Her clítoris, vaginá, and
uréthra are interconnected, and researchers
believe that stimulating any one of them may
contribute to overall arousál. Experts suggest
branching out and teasing what some call the U-
spot-an area between her clitoris and vaginá,
located near the entrance to her urethrá. Use
soft, circular motions with your finger. Uráthral
nerves are very sensitive, so stimulation here
creates a particular kind of árousal-a soft, melting
form of climáx. Make sure your hands are clean,
though-the area is infection-prone.
5. Slow down: Pulling back when she’s near
clímax and then resuming can enhance her
orgásm. Suspense raises the psychological arousal
level. Ask her to tell you when she’s near the top,
and then pull back for a few minutes to kíss and
concentrate on other parts of her body. Repeat
several times-build up, back off-until you take
her over the edge. Don’t fear ruining a moment.
It takes 5 to 10 minutes for arousál to really
subside, so even if she thinks she’s “lost it,” you’re
probably equipped to bring her back.
Good luck.

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