Every man claims to love being in control
especially when their women show them they are
into them as much as they are too. And to a very
large extent, this fact is true because a lot of men
claim they love it when women take control. They
would want their partners to be more aggressive
in bed but it just might not be as palatable as it
seems when such wishes are eventually fulfilled.
And that’s true – to a point. When the thoughts
become reality, it’s usually not as much of a
pretty sight as envisaged.
For the ladies, it might be hard determining if
you’re much too aggressive in bed or perhaps if
he is the weakling. If you’re not sure of either of
this, here are 9 signs that will tell you if you’re
the aggressive one or if he is just a weakling.
He’s having a hard time keeping an erection.
A lot of men claim that they’d love to be with a
woman that possesses an insatiable appetite for
$ex but most times end up being shocked
when they face the irrevocable reality that they
can only go so many times before their pen*ses
get limp. Keeping an erection after a couple of
ejaculation can be a tough act to say the least but
what’s important is that he’s able to satisfy your
orgys and make you orgasm.
Your toys intimidate him.
If you as a lady is the type that enjoys bringing in
fun to the bedroom with an array of $exual toys
and your man is intimidated by this, it may be
that you’re a tad too aggressive. $ex toys such as
the vibrator you use may be bigger than his
pen*s and this may bruise his ego.
You always have to scream out orders.
If you are always shouting out orders to him on
what you expect him to do which goes beyond the
normal “you’re sweet, go faster, harder”, then
he’s probably too soft for you. But if the screams
from you would wake the neighbours up and he
tells you he is bruised after, then you might have
to tone down your aggressiveness a bit.
You’re always the one that initiates $ex.
Men love to have their ego stroked by believing
that they are aggressive and the ones that initiate
$ex, drive you wild and make you surrender in
bed. As a result, men may feel you’re too
aggressive if you’re the one that always initiates
$ex more times than they do. However, it may
be that he is the weakling if you always have to
bark out orders or criticise his performance. It’s
better you tell him what you need himmto do to
be better next time.
You always reach out straight for his eggplant.
In as much as some men complain that some
women are not aggressive enough in bed, some
others complain that their partners reach out
straight for their eggplants as soon as they get
kinky in bed. Don’t get it twisted, men also love
foreplay as research has shown that men and
women almost desire the same duration of
foreplay which helps to intensify arousal and
eventual orgasm.
You never let him take the lead.
In truth, men want you to be on top sometimes
as it shows your seductress side. It is however
important that you ensure there’s a balance as
always trying to be in charge shows your
aggressive side and that could be a turn off.
You never let him take breaks between
orgasms.
Men need about 10 to 20 minutes after rest after
ejaculation before they ate raring to go again. If
he requires much more or he’s not able to gain
erection an hour after, then he might not be
good enough for you in bed. However, you need
to learn what would turn him on and sustain his
erection.
You always worry about your own orgasm
first.
Worrying that you’d not be able to achieve
orgasm might be an indication that he’s a
weakling. He just might not be able to get you to
where you desire.
You refuse to let go of control.
Being too aggressive or a weakling can be an
underlying problem just as it can be a huge one.
Stop being rigid. Don’t be afraid of how stup*d
you may sound or how your physical appearance
is, replace that fear with an air of freedom. Let
yourself loose and both you and your partner
would enjoy $ex much more. You can transform
him from the weakling he is to a strong bull if
you also learn to let go and stop being in control
of every one of your move
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