I may lose my virginity soon — Adokiye Kyrian

 Vulnerably beautiful Adokiye Kyrian, peace
ambassador, architect, singer and actress, made a big
fuss sometime last year, when she revealed to
Potpourri that she was still a virgin. Not a big deal,
but in this fast and furious era where youngsters
want to get high, real fast and be done with so much
is so little time, it is nothing but a big deal.
We got talking again on Tuesday on a lighter note,
and she was joking about bringing a groom price for
one of my dashing sons. Jokingly too, I returned that
she must have to bring me a jet to give the hand of
my son to her in marriage (remember, she said the
man who will deflower her will have to buy her
mum a private jet she promised her). Then, with a
tone that had a bit of seriousness about it she
dropped the bomb.
“I will let that go soon (meaning her virginity)”, she
said, with a wry smile. When I heaved a sigh of
surprise, she surprised me more by adding “ what’s
the point of having all the endowment and not
enjoying life as a woman. Plus, people are beginning
to call me names, like mumu and all. I have been
thinking lately, you know, though my mind is not
made up yet”.
Knowing I have been gifted a good story, I probed
further and asked if she truly misses anything as a
virgin. She will be 24/25 this year.
“Yes, I guess I’m human” she shot back. “Don’t get it
twisted. Sometimes I feel like I’m missing but each
time I want to make that move, I get scared because
I know once it’s gone, it’s gone”.
Then I suspected this girl must have found a guy she
doesn’t want to lose because of sex. I hit her with the
question.
“They always push” she replied. “Push, push and push.
Don’t you know men? Aren’t you a man?” she wanted
to know and I reminded her that I am. “Man, I’m so
scared” she continues as if talking to herself this
time. “But why not? I came with it I may leave with
it”. I told her that would be an awful thing to do,
afterall God gave it to us to enjoy. She cut me short
and replied, “But God didn’t make it compulsory for
me to share it with someone. Don’t forget about the
Reverend Sisters. You know I’m a staunch Catholic. I
was almost going to be one anyways during high
school days. I grew up around Reverend Sisters and
at some point I told my mum I wanted to become
one”